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Arizona horseback riding in August (of mumble mumble year). I sure hope I was wearing sunscreen!

That Time I Made a Mistake and Didn’t Go to Phoenix

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Last Updated on February 7, 2020 by Natalie

The deal to fly to Phoenix was SO good.  I was so excited. I requested the time off work and purchased the tickets. I was going to be visiting my friend in Arizona in January! January! I’d been waiting a long time to go somewhere warm in the middle of winter and I hadn’t seen my friend in a few years. Phoenix was the perfect choice. Warm weather, here I come!

When Travel Plans Fall Through

I was so excited to finally be traveling to a warm destination during Ohio’s coldest winter month. I’d dreamed of this for so long. Booking those tickets was a surreal experience. I was finally doing something amazing!

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Side Gig: Actress

But I forgot to double check my side job schedule. I didn’t have anything written in my calendar, but we did have a gig scheduled that I’d already agreed to work. My side job was rather unusual. I was an actress in a traveling dinner theatre company. The work was sporadic, fun, and I loved it. I emailed my director to let her know my vacation schedule.

We had a show the weekend I booked the trip to Phoenix. A big show. My director really wanted me to do the performance. She was my understudy, but she needed to be available to keep the client happy during this particular gig.

So I incurred the costs to change the tickets. My cheap tickets were no longer that cheap, but that was okay because I was still going to Arizona during the winter. Good-bye winter blahs!

My first trip to Phoenix. Horseback riding.

Horseback riding through the desert near Phoenix, Arizona, during my first visit.

“Okay, I changed the tickets February, ” I told my director, via the telephone.

“Natalie, the big show is the February show. I can cover the January show, but I really need you to be in town for the February show,” she said.

“I thought you said the January show was the big show and the February show was the small one I could miss,” I said.

“No,” she said. “The February show is the large one.”

I hung up the phone and I cried. I cried right there at my desk.

Thank goodness it was lunchtime and no one was around to notice. It was so stupid and I did not want to explain to anyone why I was upset.

I was angry. I was sad. I was embarrassed. I was also out $400 and I didn’t have enough to book another flight anywhere for awhile. I was angry that I had misunderstood my director the first time we spoke. I was  angry at myself for not double checking before switching those tickets. I also became a little resentful of acting. Acting takes up time and if you aren’t in the big time, it’s a labor of love. Actually, even if you are trying for the big time, it’s a huge sacrifice for little to no pay. The pay at the dinner theatre wasn’t enough to live on, but it made me feel good that I was “using” my theatre degree.

Me, dressed as one of my dinner theatre characters. The character resemebles Marilyn Monroe with her iconic blonde hair and brown mole.

Me, dressed as one of my dinner theatre characters, Candy Monroe.

After the Tears For Phoenix, Arizona

Eventually, I did quit acting. I have little desire to ever start again, even though it was once all consuming.

It also became clear that I need to be more direct and assertive in my life, which is a slow process. It’s a process I’m still working on, so many years later. It was not my director’s fault that I didn’t check my schedule with her before I booked my flight(s). I was aware of my responsibility. I should have made it clear the dates I’d booked before I changed those flights.

I also never checked if I could exchange them for a different destination. There would be another fee to incur, but at least I’d be traveling!

What’s the most ridiculous mistake you’ve made while traveling? Have you ever been unable to go on a planned trip? Please leave a comment about your experiences.

 

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Evan Kristine August 13, 2016 - 2:29 pm

Oh I’m so sorry that you missed your flight! However, don’t be disheartened, there’s always something great around the corner!

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Natalie August 13, 2016 - 4:55 pm

Yeah, it was upsetting at the time to not get to go visit Phoenix, however I was able to make some other trips happen!

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Sara Broers August 13, 2016 - 8:38 pm

And again… it goes to show that things do eventually work out!

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Natalie August 13, 2016 - 8:43 pm

Lessons learned! Always triple check schedules and dates… and get them in writing!

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Bharat & Supriya August 14, 2016 - 11:13 am

Our biggest blunder was losing passports on the way from Italy to France. Our Portugal trip was all ruined due to this and we returned back home via Paris.

We wrote a blog about this and when we look back, we remember the street food delicacies we were able to eat in Paris at it was nearer to the Holiday season. Also it’s a story we can share with our grand kids someday…lol!

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Natalie August 14, 2016 - 11:34 am

Oh my goodness! That is a tough situation! It certainly sounds like you made great memories out of your blunder. 😀

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Bell | Wanderlust Marriage August 14, 2016 - 1:24 pm

Ohhhh that is rough! We never had a mix up like this, but one time I was in Brussels for work for just the day and was so tired I decided to go to the airport a little early. I ended up on the wrong train, thankfully a local girl helped me have a taxi waiting at the station and they sped all the way to the airport to make the flight with 5 minuets and 150euro taxi ride… Travel and life is never perfect, all part of the adventure and lessons learnt!

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Natalie August 14, 2016 - 5:42 pm

That makes me feel a little better! That could definitely happen to me, too!

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Brianna Simmons August 14, 2016 - 11:04 pm

That stinks but I’m glad you were able to take something positive from this!

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Natalie August 15, 2016 - 7:56 am

Thanks! It took awhile for the positive part to show up. 🙂

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